Thursday, April 20, 2023

How do you deal with your child if he is stubborn and difficult to deal with?



Tips for dealing with a stubborn child:

Is your child stubborn and difficult, and you suffer from difficulties in dealing with him and persuading him to abandon some of the behaviors or ideas that he clings to and that may harm him? So do not miss this topic, as we will provide you with some tips that will definitely benefit you and make it easier for you to deal with your difficult child.

  • We advise you to keep calm and adopt dialogue in your dealings with your child in case he is difficult, as your violent reaction towards him will encourage him to increase his stubbornness as a back reaction.
  As for calmness and dialogue, they will definitely help you to get closer to your child and discover the reasons that drive him to this behavior, and then try to solve them.

  • Try to explain to your child calmly the reasons that lead you to reject some of his requests or even certain actions that he performs. This point, if you focus on it, will prompt him to change his behavior with time and significantly. When your child understands and understands his mistake, he will then amend it.

  • Be sure to tell your child about the stages of your childhood, with an emphasis on your smooth and easy dealings with your family, which will push him to imitate you and try to move away, even gradually, from his difficult nature.

  • Never submit to your child's requests in order to reduce the inconvenience he causes during his bouts of stubbornness. Here, we advise you to confront him by sticking to your rejectionist position, as he will eventually despair and abandon his stubbornness and rejected requests.

  • In order to help your difficult child overcome this situation more easily, stick with your husband and the same situation and decision in the face of his stubbornness and pressures, which are often manifested by screaming or crying. This step will make your child rethink his behavior and he may change it if it is not what he wanted from you.